for every woman who is blessed to have him :)

for my fellow girl-mates who still believed that they are worthy of love; this is for you :D

something beautiful written by Ruschka Trisnadi and Sindy.. :)

It's nice to know that you're secured with that someone. That even if the rain is pouring hard and the sky is almost dark, he'll never leave you just so you won't feel alone. Even if his friends had left him (and even if he has to be somewhere else) he'd still stay by your side, just so you won't feel alone.

It's so good to know that you have someone who'll be willing to help you cope up in every frustrations you're having. Every depressing moments, every down moments, every self-worthless-realization moments, he'd be there, not because you want someone to be with you, but because he wants to be with you.

It's great to know when a person appreciates every little thing you do. Even a smile would mean a lot to him, just because you own that smile. And that even if no words are expressed as long as the eyes understand, you'd be able to communicate, just like that.

It's overwhelming when a person tells you that he loves you for who you are. He may not have an answer when you ask him why, but really, he doesn't have to have reasons for loving you.

It's more grateful to know that someone is grateful to have you. We don't choose the people who enter our lives, so it must be luck that you have that person, then you have to be thankful. It may just be coincidence or fate, but whatever the reason is, you have to be thankful in having him the same way he is thankful for having you.

It's a wonderful feeling when you're on the verge of giving up the things you've worked hard for, someone isn't just helping you carry the weight on your shoulders, but he carries it on his own because he'd also be in pain when you are in pain. And then you'll realize, trials would all be worth it as long as you have him, not because he would do things for you, but because you gather all the strength you need, in him and his love.

It's a superb feeling when one is willing to take the risks just so you'll be happy. Unselfishness rule in him just so happiness would take over you.

It's a nice feeling that when you're apart, and days seem to be long, that person misses you. Yes, you might feel bad about not being with each other, but knowing that you feel the same way would drive those blues away, thinking, you'd fight over that feeling because you're looking forward to seeing each other, and that's something to be happy about.

It's a great feeling when he wants to be with you because of the happiness you have when you're together. That even if corny jokes and senseless stories are told, it won't matter as long as you're together.

It's a lovely feeling when someone thinks about your future, with or without him. He cares and he cares enough to think of you and what you'll be someday. But of course, he also wants to be in it someday.

It's a nice feeling when you can be who you really are with that person. No pretentions, no lies, no hypocrisy, because he accepts you for who you are. You can be funny, you can be embarrased, but it won't matter coz it doesn't matter to him. Trust and faith in each other keeps you alive. And it will always do.

It's good to know that you have someone who'll not have the intentions of breaking your heart. Instead, he would be willing to mend it, picking up the broken pieces of your heart that your past love have scattered in the ground. He may not be able to put the pieces back to where they really belong, but you shouldn't mind, because he had repaired that heart of yours, and he fixed it in his own way. He loves you in his own way, not the way your past did. He fixed your heart in a different way, to keep you from feeling the pains of your past heartache and to make you feel, the love, that he's unselfishly giving.

It's a great feeling when that person has every effort to let you feel what he feels for you. Because of the distractions, you may not hear him shout it to the world, but as long as you feel it, his efforts has paid off, big time. And when you feel the same way too... He'd feel as if he's the luckiest person alive.

... when in fact, you're more blessed to have him.

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and this is by Sindy.

some of you guys lucky ones might have been blessed to have that special someone be there for you;
yap.
yet,
some of you guys might hold onto someone who you know; is not the right guy;
some of you guys have been hurt, and had your heart torn, broken into pieces - which are impossible to mend;
some of you guys are on the clouds, dreaming and adoring that someone perfect you see everyday,
some of you guys regret, regret and wish that it was somebody else who is next to you;
some of you guys may read this and feel nothing, or think its such a cliche, classic imagination of girls which do not come true,
some of you guys might read this and get reminded of that someone who use to be with you in the past;
some of you might read this and get thrown back into the past, regretting some decisions you made, or some things you failed to say...
some of you haven't got the chance at love, and you think, how come?
hence some of you are still searching, with that young, innocent, green heart, for that knight in shining armor you dream of,
or think that you're not good enough,
and some of you are still waiting.

I've heard stories, stories about how love is bullshit. about how love will fade away when you go through marriage. I've heard stories about how guys are nothing but a bunch of fucking jerks, about how we're the ones who suffer the shit in the end.

what about, let's be a little more optimistic? i choose to be a little naive than to see something as beautiful as love, to be nothing but false hope. it doesn't have to be now. maybe it takes 100 wrong ones to finally find that perfect 1? :)

those of you whose relationships are breaking apart, think; think of the most beautiful moments you used to have before, those first-kisses, cute dates, and little presents, those sparks you used to feel when you see that someone? how you fly to the sky when he gives you the ring. those butterflies in your stomach. were those real? yes.

to those of you waiting, believe. believe that you are NEVER not worthy of loving. and the rest is history.

all we got to do is be patient. :D